Cousin Camp – For the Strength of Cousins

For the Strength of Cousins Camp

Our extended family holds a biannual cousin camp that mimics church youth conferences like For the Strength of Youth and Especially for Youth. Our cousins live all over the country so this is an opportunity for them to spend quality time together strengthening their cousin bonds.

It’s really great to have over twenty teens for this event.  We invite all our cousins who are ages 12-18. Then we tell them to invite their cousins from the other side of their family and any close friends they think could be adopted cousins for the week.  Our group has varied in size from 20-38 teens.

Our event usually runs from Tuesday evening to Saturday morning.  Here’s an example agenda from our most recent camp held in Salt Lake City and Syracuse, Utah.  For the Strength of Cousins Agenda 2020

Here are some ideas so you can organize your own Cousin Camp. We’ve divided our ideas into the fun stuff and the spiritual stuff.  This is an opportunity to strengthen faith and family unity, so we always schedule faith-promoting devotionals and speakers at our event. However, we know our audience and no one would come if it wasn’t super fun.  So, make sure you have a good balance of both and don’t forget to allow lots of free time.

-The Fun Stuff-

company competitions

Divide your group into teams of 5-10 people. Four groups is ideal.  You can use these groups for food prep and cleaning assignments, but the main purpose is for everyone to be a part of a team. Every day should include at least one company competition. Here are four fun ideas:

Photo Scavenger Hunt

Set your teams lose on a photo scavenger hunt in a mall, park, or downtown plaza. Make a list of items and activities their team can photograph and video to earn points.  Set a time limit and let them go!

Here’s our list:  Photo Scavenger Hunt- Downtown Salt Lake City

Photo Scavenger Hunt Cousin Camp
Photo Scavenger Hunt in City Creek Plaza, Salt Lake City
Obstacle Course

Create an obstacle course in a back yard or park.  We had access to an inflatable obstacle course that served as one leg of the race. Make sure there are enough obstacles that everyone on the team will be part of the competition.  We had climbing, jumping, running, and throwing events.  We also had a putting golf hole, a  trampoline challenge, and then some team challenges like a human pyramid and carrying people.   Make it up based on your space.  You’ll need a few adult judges to make sure no one cheats. Make sure the rules are laid out clearly before you start.  This is supposed to be fun, so you’ll want to avoid any arguments over the rules mid-competition.

Obstacle Course

Game Show Competition

We created a really fun game show competition that was a huge success. We needed an inside activity for a hot afternoon and this fit the bill.  Here’s the link with a full description and clues:  Epic Game Show Competition

Cousins Got Talent  (Skit Night)

On our last night, all the teams made up a skit and performed for the group. We had a panel of judges (uncles, aunts, older cousins) who scored the skits for the team competition.  The groups knew about this all week so they had talked about it and used some of their free time to prepare.

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Water Kickball

If you’ve never played water kickball, you’re in for a treat.  This activity costs about $100 but you can use it over and over. You will need 3 inflatable kiddie pools, four rolls of 3’ X 50’ 4 mil plastic sheeting from a home improvement store, baby liquid soap, a rubber kickball, and access to a hose/water.

Roll out the plastic in a 50′ square with kiddie pools for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd bases. Sit the pools on top of the plastic at each corner of your diamond to weigh it down.  Pin down the home base corner with a couple of tent stakes. You don’t want stakes in the plastic anywhere else because someone could hurt their bare feet as they run.  Squirt baby soap on the plastic, then spray it with water and fill up your kiddie pools. Keep the water flowing and continue to spray the plastic and fill the pools as needed throughout the game.  Now, play kickball!  You’ll be slipping and sliding and laughing the whole time.

Water Kickball

Yard Games

Make sure your event has lots of free time.  Yard games should be readily available so the kids can play whenever they like. Volleyball and Four-Square were our two favorites last year.

Cousin Volleyball

Water Day

If you have access to a lake or reservoir, take advantage.  Our group had a great time floating in the Great Salt Lake.  (I’ve lived in Utah most of my life and I had never swam in the Great Salt Lake. It was a blast!)  Another year, we went to a water park.  Water is just fun– especially on hot summer days.  Add a little water to your event if you can.

Trip to the Great Salt Lake
Swimming at the Great Salt Lake

Ropes Course

We really like ropes courses because they encourage teamwork, courage, and trust. We have had several good experiences with Utah’s CLAS Ropes Course in both Provo and Eden.  In addition to the aerial park, we succeeded in several team building challenges on the ground. It was a great day.

More Information on CLAS Ropes Courses in Utah: CLAS Ropes

Ropes Course

Giant's Ladder
Giant’s Ladder

Games

Check out some of our game ideas to use throughout your event.  Large Group Games

-The Spiritual Stuff-

Devotionals

Devotionals by older cousins, aunts, uncles, and  grandparents are at the heart of our cousins camp. There’s something special about learning from people who really love you.  Make sure to include as many family members as you can to help promote faith and strength in your teens.

Cousin Camp at the Cemetery
We had a devotional by an older cousin at the graveside of our cousin, Alec. It was a special night.

Speakers

We set aside one day in the middle of our week as our speaker day. We invite two guests to speak back-to-back at 10:00 and 11:00.  The speakers are followed by lunch and then one last speaker at 1:00. We invite seminary teachers and friends who we know will connect well with our teens.

Spiritual Speakers at Cousin Camp

Hike with a Speaker at the Summit

It’s fun to go on a short hike with your group and have a speaker at the summit. If you can time it at sunset, it’s even cooler. Don’t forget to bring your flashlights!

Antelope Island Hike

Service

It’s also important to add an element of service to your camp. One year, we did a bunch of yardwork.  Another, we made posters and delivered them to a nursing home to hang on the residents’ doors.

Service Project

We hope some of these ideas inspire you to hold your own Cousin Camp! Strong families = Strong world

 

Let’s Trek! Pioneer Trek Activities You’ll Love

Pioneer Trek Women's Pull

Looking for great Pioneer Trek activities? We have participated in many Pioneer Treks as Trail Bosses, Ma & Pa, and family members. Here are some helpful ideas to make your Pioneer Trek a fun and uplifting event.

Morning Round-Up

Begin each morning on the trail by gathering everyone together. (This will take place after breakfast, family devotionals, and loading trailers. ) Start with a roll call, draw lots for pull position, family handcart song, announcements, and a company hug.  All of this will take less than 15 minutes.   It’s a great way to start the day!

Roll Call

The trail boss will call out the family colors or names and each family will respond with a cheer.

Draw Lots for Pull Position

Our favorite way to do this is by putting a handful of Legos in the Trail Boss Ma’s apron pocket.  There is a Lego for each family. The Trail Boss calls a youth up to pick from the pocket. She stacks the Legos as they are pulled and that is the order for the day.  The order can be drawn again after lunch.

Family Handcart Song

Ask every family to make up a verse to “The Handcart Song”. They can do this as they’re trekking or before Trek. The Stake leaders share their song on the first day before the first pull. Three or four families share their songs each morning at Morning Round-Up.  Here’s the song and an example.  Handcart Song Music

STAKE LEADERS HANDCART SONG

Stake Support:

The stake support is here for you.

We’ll haul some gear and water too.

And, Dan, he has a job that’s neat

He keeps the toilet smelling sweet.

Food Committee:

The food committee keeps the rules.

We wash our hands and clean our tools

Because we know it won’t go well

With diarrhea on the trail.

Trail Bosses:

The trail bosses will lead the way

We’ll lead a song and shout hooray

But we may go a mile too far

 Because we don’t know where we are.

Chorus:

For some must push and some must pull,

As we go marching up the hill;

So merrily on our way we go

Until we reach the Valley-o.

Printable Stake Leaders Handcart Song

Announcements

Share the agenda and any announcements for the day.

Company Hug

A morning “company hug” is a great pioneer trek activity to promote unity. Our treks have been four day events, so we needed four company hugs. Here are some ideas.

  1. First Day/Practice Hug: Everyone forms a big circle, trying to stand side-by-side as close as they can, with arms around shoulders. Then everyone moves one step forward to add an extra squeeze.
  2. Sit Hug: Everyone forms a big circle. Everyone turns so their stomachs are close to the back of the person in front of them.  Tighten the circle so everyone is close together. Then, on the count of three, sit down.  Everyone should be sitting on each other, so no one should fall!
  3. Magnet Hug: Once again, everyone forms a big circle. The Trail Boss yells for everyone with a birthday in January to run to the center of the circle and make a big group hug. Then he yells “February!” and the February birthdays run to the center and join in the hug.  He continues with all the months as everyone gets sucked into the magnet hug.
  4. Cinnamon Roll Hug: Save this one for your last morning. Everyone holds hands, making a big circle. The trail boss lets go of one hand and begins to walk to the center, pulling everyone behind him.  The group then goes round and round, forming a tight cinnamon roll. I wish I had a video of our trek kids doing this.  They loved it! Here’s an example from YouTube.  https://youtu.be/inD620ss3Uc

Pioneer Trek Activities: Gathering with Pioneer Families at Night

Trail of Hope

In Nauvoo, during pageant weeks, actors stand along the trail to the river and tell their stories to the visitors as they walk the Trail of Hope.  We recreated this powerful experience on our Pioneer Trek. It’s one of our favorite pioneer trek activities.  We held our Trail of Hope on our first night, after dinner and a variety show. We staggered the families to begin the trail every five minutes. They needed to be spaced enough to listen to a story, then move to the next one before the following family arrived. We asked 12 adult leaders and youth to learn the parts. (Most don’t need to be memorized, but the actors should know the stories very well.)  We gave each actor a lantern.  They stood alone on the trail and told their story to each family as they passed.  Here is our script:  Trail of Hope Script

Variety Show

On the first night, after camp has been set-up and everyone has eaten dinner, it’s good to gather and have some fun.  It’s important for the kids to know that even though trek is going to be physically hard, it’s also going to be tons of fun.  You want them to know this from the start.  Our variety show consisted of several youth sharing their talents, plus a skit from our Pa’s, a song from our Ma’s, and some entertainment from our Trail Boss.  This can be really fun.  Tap into the talent in your group and make it happen! I’ll attach copies of our Ma and Pa numbers to get you thinking. You’re welcome to use our scripts if they suit your needs. We asked a quartet of young women to end the night by singing “Happy Trails”.  It was great!

Ma’s Variety Show Song

Pa Skit Script

Pioneer Trek Activity: Stilts at the Rendezvous

Pioneer Rendezvous

On Friday afternoon, we always gather for games and competition at our Pioneer Rendezvous.  The favorite events are axe throwing, stilts, tug-of-war, and hoop throwing/catching.  There are many stations with pioneer games.  It’s easy to find other pioneer games and activities through a quick internet search.

Team Building/Get-To-Know You Activities

Here are a few ideas to help build unity within families.

  1. Make up nicknames for family members.
  2. Have a family yell or cheer.
  3. Assign jobs (Load/unload cart, place rocks under wheels when stopped, set-up/take-down shelter, fill water jugs, retrieve bedding from trailer, etc.)
  4. Seven Questions on the Trail: Choose one person at a time. The family gets to ask them 7 questions about themselves.
  5. The BIG Question: Ask a big question and everyone has to answer it. (What super power would you have? Do you have a phobia? Share an embarrassing moment.  Who’s your hero?)
  6. Whomp! Memory Game: Sit in a circle. Person in the middle has a pair of socks in their hand. They run to someone. That person ahs to yell out the name of another person before he gets whomped with the socks.
Pioneer Trek Activities: Let’s Trek!

Games on the Trail

  1. You Don’t Say: Game played in two teams- right side of cart vs. left side of cart. Here are the rules:  You Don’t Say
  2. Encore: Call out a category. Each team takes turns singing the first few lines of a song until one team can’t think of a song.  Examples: Songs from Mary Poppins or Songs with the word “Night”.
  3. Ghost Speller: Take turns saying a letter to form a word. When opponent thinks it isn’t a word, they challenge previous player.  Point goes to person with a true word or the challenger if no true word.
  4. Line Up: Challenge another family or two on the trail. Caller yells category and the teams try to line up in order before the other teams.  Category ideas: Age, length of hair, shoe size, # of visits to Disneyland, highest bowling score, alphabetically by middle name, height of favorite Star Wars character, alphabetically by first name of favorite Harry Potter character…More detailed rules: Line Up

Games for Down Time

  1. Human Knot: Stand in circle. Put right hands in and grab a hand. Then put left hand in and grab a hand. Try to untangle the knot.
  2. Lucky Stiff: Need lots of people. Everyone takes off their shoes. One person stands in the middle of the circle. Everyone else sits on the ground in a circle with their feet pressed tightly against the person standing in the middle. The person in the center crosses their arms over their chest, stands stiff and falls. The circle passes the person around.  Super fun!
  3. Ten Fingers: Everyone holds out 10 fingers. Go around the circle and say something you’ve never done. Anyone in the circle who has done it has to put down a finger.  Last player with finger wins.
  4. Norwegian Dodge Ball    * Instructions: Norwegian Dodgeball
  5. Back Massage: Sit on buckets or stand in a circle. Rub the back of the person in front of you.
  6. Run Sheepy Run
  7. Kick the Can
  8. Steal the Bacon
  9. Four Men on a Log   *Instructions: Four Men on a Couch
  10. Ape, Girl, Man: Just like Rock, Paper, Scissors: Ape gets Girl, Girl gets Man, Man gets Ape
Pioneer Trek Wagon Train
Zoom in on this picture to see our handy water bottle pockets.

Family Devotional Ideas

We believe that the experiences the youth have with their pioneer families are the most powerful of a Pioneer Trek.  We encourage you to have morning and evening devotionals in your small family groups.  These discussions will likely be the most important part of your your trek.

  1. Pioneer Stories, both historic and modern
  2. Great stories from Ma & Pa’s life or other people in the group
  3. Talent show (on the spot, silly talents) or Untalented Show
  4. Book of Mormon/Joseph Smith/Restoration of Priesthood on Earth- Talk about how the pioneers, who were new members of the church, must have felt about finding the restored gospel. Sing “The Spirit of God” and talk about how exciting it would be to find out that God was speaking to His children again through prophets.
  5. How to gain a testimony and feel the Spirit
  6. Ask youth to share testimony, scriptures, pray, or lead devotional
  7. Theme: “You Can Do Hard Things”- “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me”
  8. Appreciation Game (Really great on Testimony Night): Sit in circle. Explain rules at beginning. The speaker says, “I love and appreciate _____ because_____.”  The person being complimented must look at the speaker and may only say, “Thank you.” Then it is that person’s turn to compliment someone else.
  9. It’s always great to sing together and kneel in prayer.
  10. Use the adult leaders in your family to help with devotionals.

Note: Shorter spiritual thoughts more often usually work better than long ones less often.  Try to make devotional more of a discussion than a lecture.

Pioneer Trek Trail Bosses

Plan with a purpose

A pioneer trek fosters appreciation for our pioneer heritage, but it also helps youth overcome challenges, observe healthy family relationships, and strengthen their faith.  Make sure your Ma’s and Pa’s know how critical their role is in providing this unique experience for the youth.   Here is a list of responsibilities to keep in mind.

Ma and Pa Responsibilities

  • Love the youth in your family
  • Lead and direct by example
  • Provide a model of a healthy family relationship
  • Ensure that the trek experience is completed safely
  • Assemble necessary family equipment
  • Prepare and lead family devotionals and activities
  • Foster an environment for spiritual experiences
  • Know and share pioneer stories to discuss as inspired
  • Encourage use of journals
  • Prepare physically and spiritually
  • Create unity through games, cheers, music, etc.
  • Have fun

 

Epic Game Show Competition

You are going to love this activity!!

We created this competition for a youth activity for 36 teenagers.  It was a hit!  We have shared it with other groups who have had great success using it for both adult gatherings and large family gatherings.  All we can say is, “You’re welcome!”

We will include all of our clues and questions but you may need to adapt some of them to your own situation. Our youth were all members of the same church (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints) so we have some songs and trivia questions specific to their faith. It should be easy for you to swap these clues/questions to fit your own needs.

Large Group Game Show Competition

Instructions

Divide your group into teams. You’ll need about 6-9 people per team.

Spread your teams out so they are each sitting in their own semi-circle.  Make sure they are positioned so they can watch the other teams when it’s not their turn.

Divide each team into three sub-groups. Our teams had nine people so we had three groups of three people on each team. If you have less people, some individuals will need to participate in two sub-groups. Each threesome will be assigned to be Artists, Actors or Singers.  For example, my team has seven people: Roy, Joy, Kate, Tate, Jill, Phil, and Bill.  We decide that Roy, Joy and Kate will be our artists. Tate, Jill and Phil will be our actors and Bill, Joy and Tate will be our singers.  Three for each competition.

Artists: The artists receive a card with three clues.  They can look at the clues together and decide who will draw each clue.  The artists all draw on the whiteboard at the same time.  They have 40 seconds for their team to guess all three words.  They get one point for each correct word.  Then, if the guessers can solve the riddle of how their three words are connected or what they have in common, they get a bonus point.

Example Clue: Car, Tree, Elephant / Bonus: They all have trunks.

Go around from team to team, allowing each team to have a turn while the others watch. If you have time, you can have a second round.

Actors:  The three actors work together to act out four group-charades clues.  They may act the clues out in any order. Their team has 80 seconds to solve as many clues as possible.  One point per correct answer.  Have an adult (non-player) hold the clues to the side where the actors can see the clues, but their team cannot.

Example Clue Card:  Zoo, Olympics, Trick or Treating, Jonah & the Whale

Go around from team to team, allowing each team to have a turn while the others watch. If you have time, you can play a second round.

Singers:  The game is “Name That Tune”. The singers have 60 seconds to name as many songs as they can on their list.  Each singer must hum/da-de-da two songs on the list.  No words allowed.  Again, have a non-player hold the clues to the side where the singers can see the clues, but their team cannot. The songs can be sung in any order. One point for every correct answer.

Example Clue Card:

  • Amazing Grace (Hymn)
  • Piano Man (Billy Joel)
  • Let It Go (Frozen)
  • Rewrite the Stars (Greatest Showman)
  • Ring of Fire (Jonny Cash)
  • Shake It Off (Taylor Swift)

Go around from team to team, allowing each team to have a turn while the others watch.

College Bowl: The final game is a trivia showdown. Everyone stays with their team in their own semi-circle.  Everyone stands up.  The host circles the room, going from team to team asking trivia questions.  One person from the team must answer the question.  The team can discuss who will answer the question after they hear it.  (Example: Finn says he knows this one, but Kate does too.  The team decides to let Kate take this one and save Finn for another category.  Maybe no one knows the answer.  Allie volunteers to take a guess and use up her turn.)  Once an answer is given, that person must sit down.  Each person only gets to answer once.  Right or wrong, they sit down after they answer.  Right answers receive one point.  As the game progresses, each team has fewer and fewer players to answer.  The last person standing must answer the last question.   No questions is ever repeated.  You simply get it or you don’t—no stealing. A time limit is usually not necessary, but you could put a 20 second clock on each answer if it seems necessary.  It is important that every team have an equal number of players in the College Bowl. If a team has less, one of their players should be randomly chosen to answer two questions.

Note to Host:  Write/Print the clues on individual cards as shown below for the artist, actors, and singers.  Do not print the answer to the riddles on the artist cards. The College Bowl can be printed as-is for the host to give a clue in each category for each team member.  We had 9 people on four teams (36 people), so we needed 36 total questions– 4 questions from 9 categories. Adapt as needed for your group.  My list has many more questions in case your group is larger than ours.

Print our clues/questions here:   Large Group Game Show Competition